According to your wife, it is also traditional for the groom to remain celibate, except for his oral duties, and for her to visit the pastor regularly to "renew her vows." [no imagefap]
The classic French maid uniform we all recognize today (black dress, white apron, lace, short skirt) wasn’t actually standard workwear. It was popularized by theater, burlesque, and later porn, because it exaggerated femininity and submissive aesthetic