I always loved the idea of the man being naked when his wife shows up in her lingerie or whatever so that the woman does not seems to get overly objectified.
When you get home from work, I wait you on the bed with a collar and a leash "Sweet Heart, do you like what I bought? You said you liked the girl from last time" I hand you the leash and walk over to you before stretching my lips out for a kiss "kiss!