Finding a guy who wants to be with a couple and not just fuck a wife seems impossible. It’s more than sex, sort of a power exchange and animalistic hierarchy.
A bit out of my comfort zone, but after a lot of life changes (breakup, new job, new place, etc) I’ve been working on losing weight I’ve packed on over the years. I’ve gone from 205 to currently 180. Despite all the struggles I feel more healthy th